Amy’s Fancy Bistro is Now Open!

I work with some picky eaters who are incredibly reluctant to try new things. Even more difficult, I have a picky eater who doesn’t like to try new things but also doesn’t like to have the same things too often or he gets burnt out and doesn’t like them at all anymore. It’s a tough situation that I’ve been struggling with for years. I have gotten him to try new things and have definitely expanded his “Things I’ll Eat” list.  But there’s still a lot of room for things to improve.

For help, I decided to re-read the chapter from “No Whine with Dinner” that lists lots of tips for getting picky eaters to try, and hopefully enjoy, new foods. There’s some great ones, and it seemed like a lot of them were pointing towards the same main idea- get the kids involved, and find ways to make the experience fun and positive. I’m hoping to get Mr. 7 in the kitchen helping me pick out recipes and cook them, but until we can get that started, I decided to work on the “fun and positive” part.  Soooo…

I decided to open up my own restaurant!  It’s called “Amy’s Fancy Bistro”. It’s not real, of course, but I tried to make it feel as real as I could. I went to Target and got plastic plates, bowls, and cups that look like they’re fancy porcelain and crystal.  I didn’t want them to worry about the dishes accidentally breaking.   I put on pretty piano music (Thanks Pandora!)  I dimmed the chandelier in the formal dining room and lit a vanilla-scented candle. I put their plates on nice placemats and folded their napkins neatly with their forks on top. And when I put their food on the plates, I made sure it was presented as prettily as I could make it, like an expensive restaurant would.

For dinner, Chef Amy served Crispy Chicken Bites (chicken breast cut into small chunks, rolled in olive oil and then breadcrumbs, and baked at 400 degrees for about 10 minutes or until cooked through and slightly browned), Roasted Squash Noodles (spaghetti squash), lightly buttered and topped with grated Parmesan cheese, and Freshly Diced Strawberries, dusted with powdered sugar and a small star of Whipped Topping (from an aerosol can- don’t judge, it’s all there was in the house). The beverage of the night was chocolate milk.

The kids were asked to call me Chef Amy, and I gave them some simple etiquette. Food shouldn’t be eaten with fingers unless the Chef says it’s ok to.  If you like the food, please compliment the chef!  If you don’t care for something, the chef would appreciate some feedback about could be better, but be careful not to insult the chef.  And the last rule- Enjoy your meal and let your server (me) know if there’s anything you need.

They LOVED the whole thing. There was no arguing or pestering each other, no whining, no bad manners, and best of all, they tried everything on their plate without being asked!  Neither of them liked the squash, which was the one brand new item on their plates, but I didn’t have to fight them to give it a try, and they gave me feedback about what they didn’t enjoy about it (it seems to mostly be the texture of it). And I got more compliments on the other things than I ever have at dinner before!  It was a win-win for all of us, and they can’t wait to do it again next week!  I’m hoping that Mr. 7 can give me ideas for recipes to try from the cookbooks I got at the library.  And if he doesn’t, I’ll come up with something interesting and delicious!  So all in all, the experiment was a huge success!

PS- this is how my bistro looks in my imagination:

Valentine’s Day Crafts!

It’s almost February!  If you’re helping your kiddos hand-make all their valentines this year, you might want to get started doing V-day crafts now!  If you don’t have many to do, maybe you don’t have to get started yet, but it’s good to have some ideas so that you can make sure to have the right supplies.  I’ve been asked whether or not Jewish families celebrate Valentine’s Day.  I can’t speak for all Jewish families, of course, but mine does.  For me, and for them, V-day is a secular holiday that celebrates the love we have for our family and friends. Anytime there’s a holiday that focuses on gratitude for other people, I’m in!  I think gift-giving is important for youngsters, and this holiday is perfect for that. 🙂

For infants/Toddlers:

Handprint/Footprint “Love” picture– There are so many ways to do this! You can make it simpler by just making a double handprint or double footprint heart. And if you have a wiggly infant/toddler who won’t let you get the prints in the right place, let them enjoy the paint and put nice prints wherever, then cut and paste them into the shape you’re going for. Don’t let art get frustrating!

Marble Art Valentines – I couldn’t find a picture illustrating this idea completely, but marble art is fun!  How to make it kind of cool and amazing too? Before your kiddo does the marble art, cut out one or more hearts out of contact paper, and stick those hearts onto the paper the paint will go on.  Make sure the paper gets very well covered with paint, and when it dries, peel off the contact paper and reveal the hearts!  You don’t have to do this with marble art, though. You can just do some free form painting on the contact papered heart paper instead!

For Preschoolers: 

Both of the above projects would be fun for preschoolers, but here’s more ideas!

Paper Roll Heart Stamps Fun and cute!

Animals made out of Hearts– Because really, who can ask for more? Miss 4 loved making the cats last year when she was Miss 3, but there are so many choices!

For School-Agers (is that a word? Oh well.)

The heart shaped animals are still super fun for older kids, and BONUS- most of them can cut out their own hearts with or without a little help! But that doesn’t mean I’m not giving you more stuffs.

Heart-Shaped Borax Crystals– Craft + Science = Double Awesome.

All-in-One Valentine Card– For more instant gratification, there’s this project, which can also work well for younger kids. The tutorial shows how to fold a heart into a cute envelope, so you can write/draw secret stuffs and then deliver it in an adorable way.

I have so many other great ideas on my Holiday/Seasonal Pinterest Board!  So if you’re not fulfilled yet, go check that out!  Happy Valentine’s Day, everyone!

Non-fiction for kids!

Miss 4 is a very curious kid. I LOVE that about her. I’m the same way!  I want to know everything about everything!  I always ask her what kind of books she wants me to get for her at the library (I go while she’s in school), and there’s always something non-fiction on her list.  She has asked for books about plants, gardens, skin, gorillas, seals, cats, tons of other animals, how the inside of our body works, how snow is made, our skin… the list goes on and on!  I’ve become quite familiar with the non-fiction section of our local library.  And my new favorite non-fiction children’s book author (and she illustrates, too!) is Gail Gibbons!  There’s probably some of you out there who already love this lady, but I’m only just starting to get to know her.

Last week, when Miss 4 wanted a book on how snow is made, I wondered if I’d be able to find one that was age-appropriate. Gail Gibbons delivered with “It’s Snowing!”.  It has lovely, fun illustrations and great, basic information.  Some of it might go right over a 4 year old’s head, but that’s ok. You can discuss it further, or just focus on the more basic concepts.  I loved that there’s a main story line, plus additional captions that you can read and discuss if you have time.  Miss 4 loved it!

Today during our 30 minute drive home from Gymnastics, I handed Miss 4 Gail Gibbons’ “Frogs”- a book with a CD. I had to keep pausing the CD because she had more questions about things in the books, or just wanted to discuss something she found interesting (“Amy, there’s a frog that eats 100 mosquitoes in one night! Don’t you love that frog?” Yes. Yes I do.). By the end, she was saying how much she loved frogs, even though she hadn’t really thought much about them before.  It was wonderful. The narration with page turns took about 20 minutes to get through, which is a little longer than what she usually listens to, but she didn’t lose interest at all.

I can’t wait to discover all her other books!  And there are a LOT. Check out her website to discover them all and learn more about this great author and illustrator!

I’ll be posting Valentine’s Day Craft ideas next, so stay tuned!

Welcome to 2015!

It a new year, and you know what that means, right? It’s time to reflect on the past year and decide what we can do this year to be a better person. Since you’re reading this, I’m going to assume you hope to continue to become a better caregiver. I know I do.  It’s a constant journey, you know? So I’m here to help you out.

There are some wonderful child care books out there, but there’s so many, I know it can be daunting to decide which ones to read.  Here are some of my favorites.  I’ve read each of these and have loved them.  Hopefully you’ll get just as much out of them!

How to Talk So Kids Will Listen and Listen So Kids Will Talk by Adele Faber and Elain Mazlish

I literally re-read this book once a year, sometimes more often.  The strategies are simple, but oh so helpful, especially with kids that are school-age.

Siblings Without Rivalry by Adele Faber and Elain Mazlish

Another one to read more than once!  Everyone who cares for siblings should read this one.

Brain Rules for Baby: How to Raise a Smart and Happy Child from Zero to Five by John Medina

The title of this book is deceptive. You don’t have to have a baby to find this beneficial.  It’s all about early childhood development, based on science and psychology, but written so that it’s easy to understand.  I’ve written a few blog entries already about topics from this book.  Definitely worth a read.

Raising My Rainbow: Adventures in Raising a Fabulous, Gender Creative Son by Lori Duron

This is more of a memoir than an advice/idea type book, but I think it’s an important book to read.  If you’ve read much of my blog, you may have noticed that gender roles are a hot-button topic for me.  I think it’s beyond important to allow a child to enjoy whatever it is that he/she enjoys, and not put gender labels on those things.  Lori’s book is fantastic and heart-warming.  You’ll love it.  I promise.

No Whine With Dinner: 150 Healthy, Kid-Tested Recipes by Liz Weiss, MS, RD & Janice Newell Bissex, MS, RD

Great recipes and great advice on helping picky eaters to branch out- this is a well-organized, super helpful book!


I already have some books on my 2015 reading list! Here’s the ones that I haven’t read yet, but plan to!

Good Kids, Tough Choices: How Parents Can Help Their Children Do the Right Thing by Rushworth M. Kidder

Get the Behavior You Want… Without Being the Parent You Hate! Dr. G’s Guide to Effective Parenting by Deborah Gilboa MD

Life, Animated by Ron Suskind

The Princess Problem: Guiding Our Girls Through the Princess-Obsessed Years by Rebecca C. Hains

The Newbie’s Guide to Positive Parenting by Rebecca Eanes

Teach Your Children Well: Parenting for Authentic Success by Madeline Levine, PhD

Do you have any child care related books that I should add to my list? Let me know!